I spent five full minutes trying to figure out how I should sign a letter to my uncle. My first instinct was not to write anything, just my name—but maybe that seems cold. Then, I looked to see what he wrote – “Abrazos,” So I considered signing it “Hugs,” but then he’d probably notice that I copied him and I’d look lazy or worse—like I don’t care. Ugh. X? O? XO? Not really my personality style. Gossip Girl’s voice-over sign-off strongly reminds me of this fact. “Love,?” This signature reminds me of elementary school love letters before we really even know what love was. After all of the hubbub and indecision, I decided to go with my first instinct.